God's word about courtship

1.Genuine passion for God
The greatest commandment is to “love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” (Matt.22:37). A mere profession of faith is insufficient. A godly man will consistently display love, obedience, and increasing passion for the Christ.

2.Authentic humility
“This is the one to whom I will look,” says the Lord,” he who is humble and contrite in spirit and trembles at my word”(Isa.66:2).Your daughter will marry a sinner—that is certain. But if he is a humble and teachable sinner who is quick to repent, then he will be sure to grow in godliness. This humility will also be evident in his love for and submission to God’s Word.

3.Love for the local church
At the center of God’s plan on earth is His church. A young man must be pursing fellowship and serving faithfully in a local church if he is to make a good candidate for a husband.

4.Biblical convictions about manhood and womanhood
A successful marriage is due in large part to a couple’s grasp of their respective roles and responsibilities. A potential husband must be committed to complementary roles found in Scripture. He must be ready to embrace to his responsibility to love and lead his wife.(Eph.5:22-25)

In addition to comparing the young man to this list of essentials, we also helped our daughters evaluate God’s commands to wives. From Scripture we asked our daughters the following questions regarding the young man each was considering:
-do you fully respect this man the way a wife is called to respect her husband?
-can you eagerly submit to him as the church submits to Christ?
-can you have faith to follow this man no matter where he may lead?
-can you love this man with a tender, affectionate love?
(1 Cor11:3; Eph5:22,33; Col3:8; Titus2:4-5)

“Each courtship, whether or not it ends in marriage, is it own unique journey. But God has provided all the wisdom that we need in His Word.”




Love,
Cheryl♥

I'm graduated !

Last two days 02072011, was my campbell U Convocation. My parents came all the way from Perak to KL, gave their best support for me ! I'm so touched, thanks each of everyone of you =)
This is my dream, which my family can come to my convocation, take lots of pictures with me. The only reason I study hard for my exam :P I wanna let them proud of me who being their daughter XD Thanks whoever attended my convocation. Dad, Mom, Sisters, Nic. . . .appreciate it much ! :))

For all my friends in TARC, thanks for entering into my life. I wouldn't forget what we have gone through together during our tough time, all the best to you guys in future! <3

















THE END . . .

Love,
Cheryl♥

Our First Anniversary - 26062011

26-06-2011, my first anniversary with Chrys. How time flies !

Darling, this is a belated message . . . . .

You are truly a blessing from God. Thank you for being my partner, spouse, lover, and friend. Happy Anniversary !! No one else would understand our relationship, and no one else in this world would understand the way you do. Thank you for working so hard and putting up with me.

Time flies when we are having fun, and it's been a blast being your partner for this year. We've both grown together throughout this year. I'm looking forward to grow even more with you :))

Thank you for your love that you show me regularly. You are generous with your time, energy, and forgiveness.I am insufficient at expressing myself with my words. I want to thank you for loving me anyway.

Bible says: 'He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord (18:22).' So, faster marry me !! XDXD Happy Anniversary Babe ~




Wakakaka, my favorite picture~


In Chilis, had our anniversary lunch


Rakuzen, had my Sushi


What a big & romantic surprise for me. Thanks for your 'magic' ! :P


Huggies~ <3

Love,
Cheryl♥

Leaving

Tik Tok
Time flies ~
I've been here for 4 years
With 4 years memories
Sour, Sweet, Bitter, Spicy =P

Now I'm leaving
To a new place
Which nobody knows me
And I know nobody

I know,
I will not be alone
because Lord has promised
To be with me
Every step of my life

I'm ready
To start my new journey
with you

I'm packing
I'm leaving
Counting down
. . . . . . . . .
. . . . . . . . .

Goodbye ~

God Bless me :)

Love,
Cheryl♥

Mother, I love you

Tomorrow is Mother's day . Well,I cannot remember the last time I celebrated Mother's day with mommy at home. Yesterday while I'm on my way to office,I listened to a song which is about mother's love. I miss my mom to the max at that moment & tears started to flow..
Mommy,you're so important for me. Without you, I would not be here today. You know, you are so amazing to me, you cook wash sleep talk eat care love for me for 20 years !! And my spacial best friend who I can pour out everything :)) Mommmy, I love you..you're the sweetest gift from God, there is no way I can ever really thank for all you do for me and this family. Mommy ROCKK !! :D See you on July, my convocation~





Love,
Cheryl♥

Tik Tok

I promise. I am willing to wait
But promise. Don't let me wait too long

Life is short. .

Love,
Cheryl♥

Happy Easter !

Happy Easter to all my brothers and sisters around the world. Let's continue to place our hope and trust in Christ, our living Savior. ♥♥ Blessed day ahead!

Love,
Cheryl♥

A verse a day keeps the devil away

An apple a day keeps the doctor away, a verse a day keeps the devil away ! I just came back from my church sunday service and there're few Bible Verses I feel like share to you guys :)

[Proverbs 23:4] Don't wear yourself out trying to get rich. Be wise enough to know when
to quit.

[Ecclesiastes 5:10] Whoever loves money never has money enough; whoever loves wealth is
never satisfied with his income. This too is meaningless.

[[Ecclesiastes 5:12]People who work hard sleep well, whether they eat little or much.
But the rich seldom get a good night's sleep

Have a good day :))

Love,
Cheryl♥

Fish & Co.

We had our lunch in Fish & Co ,One Utama. Actually I been there before, erm..Not much complaints about the food ! cause at least I paid RM11.90 for a set of fish & chips, it could fulfilled my stomach perfectly! =) =)

We ordered 2 sets of 'the best fish & chips in town' , a set of NY fish & chips and a glass of Orange juice!

'the best fish & chips in town!' RM 11.90
NY fish & chips RM12.90
Orange Juice RM 5.50





Photo session ...:D






Love,
Cheryl♥

Because You ♥ Me

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For all those times you stood by me
For all the truth that you made me see
For all the joy you brought to my life
For all the wrong that you made right
For every dream you made come true
For all the love I found in you
I'll be forever thankful baby
You're the one who held me up
Never let me fall
You're the one who saw me through through it all


You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me


You gave me wings and made me fly
You touched my hand I could touch the sky
I lost my faith, you gave it back to me
You said no star was out of reach
You stood by me and I stood tall
I had your love I had it all
I'm grateful for each day you gave me
Maybe I don't know that much
But I know this much is true
I was blessed because I was loved by you


You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me


You were always there for me
The tender wind that carried me
A light in the dark shining your love into my life
You've been my inspiration
Through the lies you were the truth
My world is a better place because of you


You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me


I'm everything I am
Because you loved me












Love,
Cheryl♥

Things I've missed, things I'll miss. . .

Yesterday was my hangout with Nic and Chrys. Just like we had planned before, Nic & I accompanied Chrys for his interview in Jaya 33 at the morning, after that we went to One U shopping mall to shop from 1pm to 5pm..It was freaking tired man ! What a tiring day for me!

I Supposed to have lots of things bringing back to home, as I planned to buy some working stuffs such as shoes and dresses for the coming working days, but just ended up with nothing T.T

Kind of regret actually, I tried out two dresses..I really love them very much and decided to bring them home !! At that time, when I was about to buy, my mind kept popping out the price of the dresses :(( I was soooo struggling over there, eventually I put the dresses back to their original place and just walked away without a good bye . . .

In fact, I'm really sad..cause I know the dresses probably wouldn't wait for me until next month :C I miss eu, DRESS~

For the shoes, I missed them too! Two pair of nice shoes, again..they just passed me by~

I could only SS in the fitting room









Love,
Cheryl♥

The New Phase of Life

As many of you already know, I received a job offer last Friday, March 25. Praise God ! I'm gonna be a working adult very soon!! It's kind of excited actually,yet I afraid for the day coming. Excited because this is my very first time, to have 2.6k go into my bank account, WITH MY OWN EFFORT !!! I'm afraid because I never really work before..Besides my 6 months internship, which I was there to facebooking, chit chatting..wuahahaha, I can consider as a very fresh worker now :D
Erm, yup..This is a new phase of my life..everything gonna change after 4th April. There are few more things which I no longer can do it during my weekdays :(
- No msn until 2AM midnight
- No facebook until 2AM midnight
- No movie date
- No supper
- SMS less
- Hang out less
- No more lunch with you :P


I wish I could turn the time back to my internship, I miss that time. Darling, do you? =)


Our last internship lunch


acting?!


He likes this!


About to leave


Our group photos


It was always ready there to send us home =)


You guys are awesome !


Love,
Cheryl♥

My Prayer to You

Lord, thank You for providing me a job within this few weeks
Thank you for answering my prayer, my needs and be my guidance all the time:)
And God, right now I wanna pray for him, Chrysler..

Father, be with him today in finding employment
Lead him to the work that he love, and that has value.
Guide him to a place with an atmosphere of respect
And cooperation, in a safe and happy environment.
Help him to find fulfillment mentally and financially !
And he shall be prosper one day!
Thank you Jesus,
In Jesus name I pray, Amen!


Darling, let's put our faith to Jesus, and believing that He will provide you a better job,okay! :)Remember to pray ya. As God promise in the Bible (Matthew 7:7 - "Keep asking, and it will be given to you. Keep searching, and you will find. Keep knocking, and the door will be opened for you" )


God bless you :P


Love,
Cheryl♥

Smiley =)

It's a beautiful day..
Good weather, can see the mist covering mountains:)
I couldn't put away the smile on my face~

Thank you, for showing me how important I am to you :)

Sad ?

Am I feeling sad? Kind of..

I've did something that I thought that was 'okay' for me yet that carried another message towards you. Am I not good enough enough? I don't know. I know I love you still, never change. sometimes, I'm just not use to express myself in this area..

Yes, I'm not kind of girl who likes to share lots my stories & status to public, I'm just not used to. .. Sorry about this. I'm sorry that I've disappointed you, but it doesn't mean that you are nothing to me! Heart crashing when you told me you admired other people,really makes me feel like I'm just a stupid,heart's bleeding..
Dearest, please don't think like this, you will pull me down :(

Erm,So now, 3.34PM..I am officially picking up the pieces of my broken heart, fix them back, forget about it and continue the journey with you =)Can we do that?

I'm back C:

Yes, I'm back to this place which so called my second home! firstly, thank God that You brought me home safely. It was raining heavily last night, mom told me that she beginning to worry about me and Chrys! Afraid that we can't see the road clearly, afraid that Chrys can't get used to drive at night. So before we departed, she laid hand on me to pray for safety journey ! Mom, I love you..Thanks for loving us as well :))
Ermmm,after 10 days plus of 'holiday', doesn't make become 'holier',I became lazier instead. LoL I promised myself, I must applying job by 9 March, but look at today's calender !! Cheryl ah Cheryl, whatcha waiting for? Sometimes I can hear the voice whispering that 'hey, you gotta start working girl, you got loan to pay, your mom need money for medication ! Don't drag anymore, just go ahead!' then only I start to feel stress & look for job in Jobstreet! To be honest, I think I'm escaping something, I just don't wanna face it you know. Inside my heart I know I fear. FEAR OF FAILURE. If you know me well, you'll know I'm always lacking of confidence.I started to flinch when I heard my mom said one of my best friend has went for quite many job interviews and yet can't get any response. Ohh NOO, she is a smart girl,always study hard and pass with flying colors. She deserve to get a good job faster than others!!!(this is my thought). I'm just a graduated student with 2.7 CGPA, I wonder can I? Hahaha,this is me !! Like to look down myself :P
Anyway, Nic has encouraged me just now. she asked me to try out, never try never know =) Let me lazy for few more hours, tomorrow i'm gonna seek for job! Before seeking job, can I have lunch in Jogoya first? muahahahahahaha :P Chrys promise to bring me but why never mention again??!! Arhgggg.. All the best to me !

Love,
Cheryl♥

Chris Medina - What Are Words

I Love this song very much !! Chris Medina - what are words :) the lyrics look not that sad, but the melody really stir my heart. Enjoy ! :) )

Jobless

Hi all, it's been a long time i didn't update my blog. It has been almost one year since the previous post! I've been so busy from last year until now. Ridiculous right? But it's true, I don't know why all those craps keep on coming and really never have a full stop for me! How long I never really sit infront of my computer to watch a series of drama since Autumn Concerto, erm...that was really my LAST ! T_T
BUT.....Now, I'm totally free of homeworks, tutorial, test, exam, assignment and etc, I'm FREE..because I've passed all the subjects in my final year exam as well as my WUHOOOO ! heheheeee :P Come on, this is also not an easy path to go through ok?! I went through many stages, challenges, lots of things make my mood up and down. WHY?Because I never try to enjoy my college life. Yes,I did, but that was two years ago, during my diploma stage, I was also having lots of fun in college, unforgettable memories. Things started to change when I continue my bachelor of degree. things going tough day by day, whether in my studies, relationship or financial. But thank God, eventually I'm able to get a degree holder, its really by God grace! without prayer and rely on my own strength, I don't think I able to achieve these =)
Okay,what am I doing now everyday? watching drama ! facebooking ! tweeting ! sleeping !seriously it taste goooood :D but I realized something as well ! this kind of lifestyle can't last for too long. last time when I was busy, how I wish to sleep, watch, eat for whole day without assignment,tutorials. Now I feel like these activities are kinda bored actually and no doubt I got to find a job as soon as possible =)
Currently, I'm still staying jobless !!! I really have to fast and pray for my job cause you know what, I'm still direction-less for this moment !!! Lacking of aims and purpose :S :S Oh God, show me your way as I pray and lead me to the way that You think is the best for me! :)))girls and guys, do keep me in your prayer until the day I find a good job k ! :D If can, I hope I wish I can find a good job with my love one..heeehe. woooot... yah, my boyfriend!♥ At least I can have a companion :) My love, let's rock in the working place !! :D

Love,
Cheryl♥